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Climbing Fish Parenting Podcast

Your Weekly Dose of Sanity

Deep-dive episodes on the biggest parenting challenges

Behavioral science made simple and actionable

For parents who’ve tried everything - and need something different

Your kid isn’t broken. Your parenting isn’t broken. Sometimes, we’re just asking our fish to climb trees.

If you're an exhausted parent who's tried everything and nothing has worked—this podcast is for you. You're carrying guilt about your parenting. Your child's behaviors don't respond to the typical strategies. The advice from books, friends, and even professionals just... doesn't fit.

Here's what I need you to know: You're not failing. You're just using the wrong map.

I'm Dr. Kristi, a psychologist and behavior analyst, and I help parents understand their child's unique wiring and use strategies that actually work. Whether your child has a diagnosis or you just know they're wired differently—whether it's ADHD, ASD, anxiety, sensory sensitivities, or they're just... not like the parenting books describe—this is for you.

No fluff. No shame. Just practical, evidence-based guidance from someone who gets it.

Each episode gives you real strategies for real challenges—meltdowns, school struggles, bedtime battles, and everything in between. This is where we stop asking fish to climb trees and start helping them swim.

Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep 50: Back to School Stress for Teens

In this episode:

  • Why not knowing doesn't actually protect your child from who they are — and what it quietly costs to keep guessing instead of understanding them

  • The four things a diagnosis genuinely gives a kid: understanding, validation, access to services that are often locked without it, and support that actually fits

  • The honest answer to "but what if the label follows them?" — and what the adults around your child already sense

  • A simple exercise for weighing the decision, fears and all, whether you're considering testing or just wondering if you really understand your kid yet

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Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep 49: Your School Year Reset

In this episode:

  • Why not knowing doesn't actually protect your child from who they are — and what it quietly costs to keep guessing instead of understanding them

  • The four things a diagnosis genuinely gives a kid: understanding, validation, access to services that are often locked without it, and support that actually fits

  • The honest answer to "but what if the label follows them?" — and what the adults around your child already sense

  • A simple exercise for weighing the decision, fears and all, whether you're considering testing or just wondering if you really understand your kid yet

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Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep 48: Back To School Anxiety

In this episode:

  • Why not knowing doesn't actually protect your child from who they are — and what it quietly costs to keep guessing instead of understanding them

  • The four things a diagnosis genuinely gives a kid: understanding, validation, access to services that are often locked without it, and support that actually fits

  • The honest answer to "but what if the label follows them?" — and what the adults around your child already sense

  • A simple exercise for weighing the decision, fears and all, whether you're considering testing or just wondering if you really understand your kid yet

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Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep 47: The Fear of Finding Out: Should You Get Your Child a Diagnosis?

In this episode:

  • Why not knowing doesn't actually protect your child from who they are — and what it quietly costs to keep guessing instead of understanding them

  • The four things a diagnosis genuinely gives a kid: understanding, validation, access to services that are often locked without it, and support that actually fits

  • The honest answer to "but what if the label follows them?" — and what the adults around your child already sense

  • A simple exercise for weighing the decision, fears and all, whether you're considering testing or just wondering if you really understand your kid yet

Read More
Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep. 36: The Child Only You Know

The gap between how your child presents at school and home isn't inconsistency — it's clinically meaningful data. Learn why your observations are the most important ones.

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Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep. 34: The Child Who Saves Their Worst for You

Your child isn't saving their worst for you because you're doing something wrong. They're saving it because you're the safest place they have. Learn what that means.

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Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep. 25: Listener Q&A

Why is my child so slow? Why fine at school but a disaster at home? How do I support a child who refuses help? Real answers to your biggest parenting questions.

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Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D Dr. Kristi Clarke, Psy.D., BCBA-D

Ep. 23: The Resentment You Don't Want to Admit

Resenting your child sometimes doesn't make you a bad parent. It means you're carrying too much for too long. Learn what to do before it destroys your relationships.

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