Your kid isn’t broken. Your parenting isn’t broken. Sometimes, we’re just asking our fish to climb trees.
If you're an exhausted parent who's tried everything and nothing has worked—this podcast is for you. You're carrying guilt about your parenting. Your child's behaviors don't respond to the typical strategies. The advice from books, friends, and even professionals just... doesn't fit.
Here's what I need you to know: You're not failing. You're just using the wrong map.
I'm Dr. Kristi, a psychologist and behavior analyst, and I help parents understand their child's unique wiring and use strategies that actually work. Whether your child has a diagnosis or you just know they're wired differently—whether it's ADHD, ASD, anxiety, sensory sensitivities, or they're just... not like the parenting books describe—this is for you.
No fluff. No shame. Just practical, evidence-based guidance from someone who gets it.
Each episode gives you real strategies for real challenges—meltdowns, school struggles, bedtime battles, and everything in between. This is where we stop asking fish to climb trees and start helping them swim.
Ep. 7: Whining Decoded: How to Stop It Without Losing Your Mind
Whining works — and that's exactly why kids do it. Learn why it's so triggering for parents and how to respond without accidentally making it worse.
Ep. 6: When Your Teen Can't Handle 'No': Door-Slamming, Silent Treatment, and What Actually Works
Adolescent brains are wired for intensity. Learn how to validate without caving and help your teen build frustration tolerance without destroying your relationship.
Ep. 5: Frustration Tolerance: When 'No' Starts World War III
Explosive reactions to limits aren't manipulation — they're a lagging skill. Learn the empathy-first framework that builds frustration tolerance.
Ep. 4: Co-Regulation: How to Actually Help Your Child Calm Down
Children can't reason during meltdowns. Learn how co-regulation actually works — and how your calm nervous system helps your child recover faster.