The Motivation Mismatch Kid
Your child isn't lazy. Their brain just doesn't run on the same fuel.
You might recognize your child in a story about a boy who was labeled, written off, told repeatedly that he wasn't trying hard enough. The systems designed to motivate everyone around him didn't just fail — they actively worked against him. And when he finally got what he actually needed? He was extraordinary. Not because he changed. Because someone finally stopped measuring him by the wrong ruler.
You've been told — by teachers, by systems, maybe by a quiet voice in your own head — that your child could do it if they just tried. You have spent an enormous amount of energy trying to figure out if that's true.
It isn't. You weren't using the tools wrong. You were given the wrong tools entirely. We weren't asking your fish to try harder. We were asking it to climb a tree.
There's an email heading to your inbox right now — and an episode made specifically for this result. It's the one I'd want every Motivation Mismatch parent to hear.
Now that you know how your child's nervous system is wired — Thursday's free training is where you learn to read what each environment is asking of it.
When Everyone Else Says Your Kid Is Fine Free live training with Dr. Kristi · Thursday June 4th · 8pm ET / 5pm PT
Why your child seems like a completely different kid depending on where they are — and what that's actually telling you about their brain.
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Dr. Kristi Clarke has spent fifteen years working with differently-wired kids and their families — and has lived this herself. [Learn_more_→]
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