The Mismatched Expectations Kid
Your child isn't inconsistent. The conditions are.
You might recognize your child in a story about a small, British bear who created chaos everywhere he went — not because he was careless, but because nothing about the world he walked into was built for how he worked. The people who took time to actually understand him didn't find chaos at all. They found someone warm, capable, and genuinely extraordinary — in the right conditions, with the right people.
Same kid.
Completely different outcome.
Your child's brain is exquisitely sensitive to conditions. The environment. The person. The time of day. That's not inconsistency — it's information. Every time something works, their brain is telling you exactly what it needs.
The pattern is there. It just requires a completely different question to find it.
Your inbox has more — including the question that unlocks the pattern, and the episode made specifically for parents living the school-versus-home gap.
Now that you know how your child's nervous system is wired — Thursday's free training is where you learn to read what each environment is asking of it.
When Everyone Else Says Your Kid Is Fine Free live training with Dr. Kristi · Thursday June 4th · 8pm ET / 5pm PT
Why your child seems like a completely different kid depending on where they are — and what that's actually telling you about their brain.
Can't make it live? Replay available for 7 days.
Your Kid Isn’t Broken. Your Parenting Isn’t Broken
Sometimes, we’re just asking our fish to climb trees.
Dr. Kristi Clarke is a psychologist, behavior analyst, and mom to a kid who changed everything she thought she knew about parenting. [Learn_more_→]
